THRIVE
Being human is challenging.
Caring deeply about justice, liberation and human suffering can make it even more so.
THRIVE is a collection of stories, reflections, and resources for finding more joy, grace, and aliveness while facing hard truths and discovering what is yours to do.
Big Work Is Never Solo Work
Every single being has an unfathomable gift. Deb reflects on why discovering it requires courage, community, and real support, and why the myth of doing it all alone is holding too many sensitive world-changers back.
I Spoke to a Trump Supporter. And We Agreed.
Deb shares a personal story about a conversation she was afraid to have, her imperfect actions, and the unexpected result of trying to talk across lines of political difference.
On Weaving Difference
What if naming difference could deepen belonging rather than threaten it? Deb reflects on weaving, dignity, and the courage to see clearly.
On Weaving
What if your year wasn’t about achieving more, but weaving something deeper? Deb explores slow growth, dignity, and the threads that hold us together.
Creating Movements Where No One Is Disposable
What would it look like to build movements where no one is disposable — including ourselves? Deb explores grace, trauma responses, and the courage to stay present.
Controversial Grace
Grace that stays present in discomfort. Deb reflects on the courage it takes to hold empathy, accountability, and self-compassion in the work for justice.
Are you ready for slow and steady?
This is a reflection about what it means to show up with courageous love over the long haul—and why slow and steady may be the exact medicine we need right now.
Thistle Wisdom and Imagination in a Time of Crisis
What we can learn from thistles about boundaries, belonging, and thriving
Learning to hold rejection without shutting down
Learn how to navigate rejection without shutting down. Explore how embracing discomfort, practicing self-compassion, and leaning into interdependence can turn rejection into growth.
Leaving the Safe Harbor of Silence
Finding your voice can be terrifying, but silence has its own cost. Take the small, courageous step to speak your truth—because it's worth the risk.
After the Second Inauguration of Donald Trump
Explore love, joy, and courage amidst challenges. Reflect on adrienne maree brown's wisdom, connection across divides, and the power of shared humanity.
Hawthorn Wisdom
Embrace the wisdom of winter and the Hawthorn tree’s lessons on courage, boundaries, and open-heartedness. Discover the beauty in thorns and thrive anew.